By Yehuda Ribco

Don´t tell your child that he/she should be good, rather teach him/her that you are good because you act righteously.
Don’t tell your child what is good because he/she heeds you. Tell him/her that he/she  is good, whatever he/she does, but  his/her conduct should be in harmony with his/her inner beauty, since a misbehavior  gives her/him a bad image